Trading

This picture is a little bigger than I usually post, but I couldn't bring myself to shrink it.

Reading.

Maybe it says something about me that when I look at this picture, I assume there's a laptop down between her legs. Anyway, my wife has been reading some blogs of the people who follow me, but they are mostly guys. I may track down a woman's blog or two to let her look at, though I am of course a little afraid of what ideas she may get.

Thinking.

Sometimes it seems like my wife takes any excuse to make me wait a little longer.

Power

Dressing

My wife let me put her clothes on her this morning. It was wonderful.

Surprise

I almost never know when my wife will let me come. In fact, most of the time if I feel like I know, she surprises me. I'm a very lucky man.

Privilege

A lot of times in my fantasies, I'm doing things with the hope of eventually being allowed to orgasm. I'd gladly trade any orgasm for the privilege of kissing my wife on the pussy.

Freedom

I think a big part of what attracts me to this way of life is that I want my wife to feel totally free with regard to sex. Our society puts lots of pressure on women to please men and to behave sexually is certain ways that are often not the most gratifying for the women. I hope I can do my part to alleviate that a little.

Orgasm Control

My wife told me yesterday that she doesn't think of what we're doing as 'chastity'. She prefers 'orgasm control' because I get off sometimes and because sexy things happen even when I don't get off. I don't think I'll go back and retag all my captions unless she asks me to, though.

Someone Else's "Caption"

This isn't exactly a caption, but it is pretty funny and a lovely photo.

Grovelling

We've never gone in for humiliation, but my wife does like it when I get especially excited and grovel desperately.

Mean

My wife tends to think of herself as "subtly cruel", but that is not how the woman in this fantasy thinks of herself.

Request

I guess it is clear by now that I like the idea of having to choose.