Wednesday, December 9, 2009


This picture is a little bigger than I usually post, but I couldn't bring myself to shrink it.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009


Maybe it says something about me that when I look at this picture, I assume there's a laptop down between her legs. Anyway, my wife has been reading some blogs of the people who follow me, but they are mostly guys. I may track down a woman's blog or two to let her look at, though I am of course a little afraid of what ideas she may get.


Sometimes it seems like my wife takes any excuse to make me wait a little longer.


Saturday, December 5, 2009


My wife let me put her clothes on her this morning. It was wonderful.

Thursday, December 3, 2009


I almost never know when my wife will let me come. In fact, most of the time if I feel like I know, she surprises me. I'm a very lucky man.


A lot of times in my fantasies, I'm doing things with the hope of eventually being allowed to orgasm. I'd gladly trade any orgasm for the privilege of kissing my wife on the pussy.


I think a big part of what attracts me to this way of life is that I want my wife to feel totally free with regard to sex. Our society puts lots of pressure on women to please men and to behave sexually is certain ways that are often not the most gratifying for the women. I hope I can do my part to alleviate that a little.

Orgasm Control

My wife told me yesterday that she doesn't think of what we're doing as 'chastity'. She prefers 'orgasm control' because I get off sometimes and because sexy things happen even when I don't get off. I don't think I'll go back and retag all my captions unless she asks me to, though.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Someone Else's "Caption"

This isn't exactly a caption, but it is pretty funny and a lovely photo.


We've never gone in for humiliation, but my wife does like it when I get especially excited and grovel desperately.

Tuesday, December 1, 2009


My wife tends to think of herself as "subtly cruel", but that is not how the woman in this fantasy thinks of herself.


I guess it is clear by now that I like the idea of having to choose.

Monday, November 30, 2009


I have a lot to be thankful for.

Wednesday, November 25, 2009


My wife is getting more and more comfortable setting rules and expecting compliance. I hope she feels empowered to make our intimate time together exactly what she wants it to be.


Sometimes after a long day of doing what's expected of me, it is hard to think of ways to treat my wife and hard to find the energy to follow through with them. But I know she deserves it and anyone could do it if it were easy.

Saturday, November 21, 2009


This is more or less a factual description of my morning.

Thursday, November 19, 2009


This makes me think of all those drunk, horny, teenage girls who somehow resist their own desires in addition to their partner's.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Yes Ma'am.

Yes. Yes. Yes.


I think I've had this picture around for almost ten years. I never realized before how mean she was, now I'll never be able to get rid of it.


As someone who loves big women, I have to say that not many can get this big and look this good.


Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Friday, November 13, 2009

The Dreaded Internet

My time spent on the internet is one on the things I still struggle with obeying my wife about. It is a strong habit. It is also part of what brought us together, so she doesn't want me to actually give it up. I struggle to walk the line. And yes, I realize the absurdity of writing a blog post about this.

Showing Off

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Going Back

It happened recently where things just weren't how I expected them to be and I figured we would be going back to how things used to be. My wife heard this and simply said, "It's not up to you."

Other Things

I gave my wife a foot rub last night while she read a book. A lot of times she'll make pleased sounds while I do it, but last night, she gave no hint that she felt anything.  I can't be sure, but I think it was a good book.

Pitching in.

My wife definitely provides all the energy for getting things done around the house. I was nearly useless before she inspired me.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009


This is really all about me. My wife doesn't particularly enjoy either of these activities, but this lucky bastard has a dream come true.


It has been a very long time since my wife and I spent more than a couple hours alone. I can barely imagine what she'd choose to do if we ever found ourselves with any time like that.


My wife hasn't felt the need to punish me for anything. I don't think she likes the idea, and I'm probably lucky.


Another favorite fantasy. I don't think it has much appeal to my wife at this point, so it will probably remain a fantasy.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009


I have to struggle almost every day with my desire to have my hand on my wife's skin. She lets me touch her quite a bit, but even before chastity, I was always wanting to touch her more.

Monday, November 9, 2009


My wife doesn't really like a strap-on. She prefers using a handheld thing for whatever reason. She's also never asked to pretend that I was a girl, but fantasies are funny things.


I have a bunch of images that I've collected to use on this blog and I'm going through them in order. This one had me stumped for a little while for some reason. I mentioned it to my wife and she looked at me like I was crazy for not being able to come up with anything for it.

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Hard to Resist

It wouldn't be so hard if she didn't wiggle so much.

Friday, November 6, 2009


I definitely get more energized if I think I am going to get rewarded soon. I don't think it is technically dishonest if you tell a lie and the person believes you even though they know it is a lie.

Showing Off

Since my wife led me to believe we'd make love last night, but changed her mind, I've been thinking about teasing with false expectations. This fantasy is perfect because she gives it to him knowing that he won't be able to accept.

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Yes Ma'am

Sorry, I've been neglecting this blog for a while.

Friday, October 16, 2009


Somethings never stop changing. Weather and people and everything else. Try to make the best of it.

Thursday, October 15, 2009


It is hard to imagine feeling mistreated very long when kneeling right there.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Tuesday, October 13, 2009


I am definitely the sort of person who does better when someone is pushing me. I'm lucky to have a wife who is good at it.

Monday, October 12, 2009


Talking is important in a relationship, but sometimes a direct test can be more illuminating than any conversation. Not to mention that even a man who is trying to be honest can hold something back. Other parts of him have no ability to dissemble.

Sunday, October 11, 2009


Isn't it great when a woman realizes that one of the best rewards she can give is to take something away.

Thursday, October 8, 2009


Of course I think my wife is smart and sexy and funny and just about all wonderful, but it is tough to remember to tell her all the time but without sounding too subby for her. The guy in this fantasy doesn't have that problem.


Really it is enough just to know she's enjoying herself. Even getting to watch is an extra treat.