1050 Words

Panties Stay On

2011-04-09T15:52:00.000-07:00

My wife assures me that she likes the sex part as much as the vibrator part and I believe her.

Expectations

2011-04-09T15:32:00.000-07:00

Managing expectations is HARD.

Forever Waiting.

2011-04-05T14:56:00.000-07:00

I really think this would help with the sort of blah day that always comes after the end of a long buildup.

Not Her Game

2011-03-29T15:11:00.000-07:00

True Story

2011-03-25T14:35:00.000-07:00

Bye

2011-01-10T13:45:00.000-08:00

I seem to be done with this. I'm haven't been inspired for a long time. Also, I've given up porn, which would make it impossible to do any more captions.

It was fun.

Bye.

update--

I guess I'm a little inspired again and as cuseman said, I didn't really manage to give up porn for too long.

relationshipwise, things are not FLR or femdom or anything. I did ask my wife to help motivate me to clean the house last week. she agreed and has been a little teasy since then. that's where the new inspiration came from. we're still officially 50/50.

Hard

2010-07-23T14:04:00.000-07:00

I can just imagine this poor guy spending all day getting halfway to her bedroom and having to turn back around.

Mine's the Extra One

2010-07-22T17:33:00.000-07:00

Begging

2010-07-14T14:42:00.000-07:00

My wife laughed at me in bed last night.

Puzzle

2010-07-13T13:31:00.000-07:00

Something to work toward

2010-07-09T13:38:00.000-07:00

reversal

2010-07-09T13:30:00.000-07:00

I bet when this photo was taken, the creators imagined the guy as being serviced here, but that isn't how it struck me.

No

2010-07-02T11:55:00.000-07:00

When I mentioned to my wife last night that I've been feeling very horny lately, so said, "Do you realize I've been torturing you?" She went on to explain that she won't be letting me get off for at least a week or so.

A Break

2010-06-30T13:47:00.000-07:00

I haven't posted in a while, sorry. My wife hasn't made any mention of FLR in several months and I haven't been pushing. I still follow some of the rules she set down, but basically we are not in any official FLR. It is still a big part of my fantasies, though, so I may keep posting now and then.

Fluffer

2010-04-22T11:09:00.000-07:00

Honestly, as rarely as I get off and as hot as my wife is, I don't last a lot longer than that even if we fuck.

Hope

2010-04-22T10:01:00.000-07:00

I have a hard time imagining living with her and ever stopping myself from hoping.

Exhausted

2010-04-21T10:50:00.000-07:00

Just One Way

2010-04-21T10:09:00.000-07:00

Honestly, even getting a finger in everyday would be a treat, but this is all fantasy, right?

Flashback

2010-04-15T11:16:00.001-07:00

As Usual

2010-04-06T10:41:00.000-07:00

There's nothing I don't like about this picture. I love it when people spare the airbrush.

Smiling

2010-04-06T10:40:00.000-07:00

I love pictures of smiling women. Part of me likes that she's happy and part of me thinks she's feeling cruel.

Taxes

2010-03-28T10:05:00.001-07:00

I really do need to finish the taxes.

Helping

2010-03-05T09:26:00.000-08:00

Close

2010-03-04T10:44:00.001-08:00

Lucky

2010-02-12T12:52:00.000-08:00

I haven't been doing these as much lately, but I needed a little extra motivation today.

Everything

2010-01-30T20:00:00.003-08:00

Declining

2010-01-30T19:29:00.000-08:00

Here's another fantasy derived from real life. I can't seem to convince my wife that I'm not constantly trying to get her to have sex with me. I do love having sex with her, but I also really just enjoy holding her and stroking her and things like that. She, however, believes my erections are always a request for sex.

No Touching

2010-01-29T10:35:00.000-08:00

I fear I am getting closer and closer to a hands off policy in real life. It is so hard for me to resist a quick caress here and there when I'm around my wife. Too often, though, she doesn't want to be touched at just that moment.

Chores

2010-01-29T10:04:00.000-08:00

My wife does not need help leaving her things all over the house and I honestly enjoy every time I find a sock or a sweater wherever she happened to be when she felt like taking it off.

Hungry

2010-01-28T11:56:00.000-08:00

My wife generally does not particularly like me looking at her hungrily unless she's specifically set out to get me there. That's what fantasies are for.

denial

2010-01-28T11:54:00.000-08:00

It would be much easier to be denied if my wife wasn't so incredibly sexy.

Hands Off

2010-01-27T13:32:00.000-08:00

Without going so far as to make if formal, my wife has clearly designated most nights as 'hands off' these days.

Vacation

2010-01-27T13:21:00.000-08:00

I do owe my wife a vacation. I wonder where she'll decide to go.

In Her Power

2010-01-27T10:21:00.000-08:00

Harder

2010-01-26T11:30:00.000-08:00

My wife looks sexier to me every day. Even though I do lose a bit of motivation right after she lets me come, it feels like she had given me such an amazing gift that even then she looks fantastic.

Never again

2010-01-26T11:12:00.000-08:00

My wife happens to like sucking cock, so this is not going to happen to me. I am sure, though, that there are things we'll never do again now that she's in charge.

Turnabout

2010-01-25T12:24:00.000-08:00

Of all the things my wife and I do together, the ones where she gets off, but I am only allowed to get close are the most thrilling.

Slut

2010-01-22T10:56:00.000-08:00

I'm not saying my wife was a slut. I'm just saying I get turned on imagining that she was.

Communication

2010-01-22T10:35:00.000-08:00

I have been a bit needy lately. It is a struggle to keep from being a burden on my wife instead of the helpmate she deserves.

Generosity.

2010-01-22T10:33:00.000-08:00

Service

2010-01-22T10:07:00.000-08:00

I am feeling very "servile" today.

Turnabout

2010-01-21T10:38:00.000-08:00

Another area my wife and I haven't explored.

Hiding

2010-01-21T10:23:00.000-08:00

I see a lot of femdom stuff as much too serious. I am always glad when my wife remembers she can laugh about it all.

Yearly Quota

2010-01-21T09:57:00.000-08:00

If my wife did this, I am sure I would not get another all year.

Daily

2010-01-20T10:11:00.000-08:00

If I were only so lucky as this.

Vibrator

2010-01-20T10:09:00.000-08:00

I definitely do please my wife sexually, but her vibrator definitely outscores me on orgasm delivery. Unlike this fantasy, she is usually kind to me and lets me sit beside her and gently caress her or at least watch.

Denial

2010-01-18T11:26:00.000-08:00

The more my wife lets me have orgasms, the more I want to be denied.

Been a while.

2010-01-18T09:24:00.000-08:00

I've been allowed to orgasm a lot more lately and my wife hasn't been teasing me. Clearly it has affected my motivation, sorry.

Back to Work

2010-01-07T11:00:00.000-08:00

I have not been doing my best for my wife and I need to step up.

Trading

2009-12-09T09:49:00.000-08:00

This picture is a little bigger than I usually post, but I couldn't bring myself to shrink it.

Reading.

2009-12-08T11:08:00.000-08:00

Maybe it says something about me that when I look at this picture, I assume there's a laptop down between her legs. Anyway, my wife has been reading some blogs of the people who follow me, but they are mostly guys. I may track down a woman's blog or two to let her look at, though I am of course a little afraid of what ideas she may get.

Thinking.

2009-12-08T10:54:00.000-08:00

Sometimes it seems like my wife takes any excuse to make me wait a little longer.

Power

2009-12-08T06:50:00.000-08:00

Dressing

2009-12-05T11:36:00.000-08:00

My wife let me put her clothes on her this morning. It was wonderful.

Surprise

2009-12-03T10:54:00.000-08:00

I almost never know when my wife will let me come. In fact, most of the time if I feel like I know, she surprises me. I'm a very lucky man.

Privilege

2009-12-03T10:52:00.000-08:00

A lot of times in my fantasies, I'm doing things with the hope of eventually being allowed to orgasm. I'd gladly trade any orgasm for the privilege of kissing my wife on the pussy.

Freedom

2009-12-03T09:29:00.000-08:00

I think a big part of what attracts me to this way of life is that I want my wife to feel totally free with regard to sex. Our society puts lots of pressure on women to please men and to behave sexually is certain ways that are often not the most gratifying for the women. I hope I can do my part to alleviate that a little.

Orgasm Control

2009-12-03T09:27:00.000-08:00

My wife told me yesterday that she doesn't think of what we're doing as 'chastity'. She prefers 'orgasm control' because I get off sometimes and because sexy things happen even when I don't get off. I don't think I'll go back and retag all my captions unless she asks me to, though.

Someone Else's "Caption"

2009-12-02T09:48:00.000-08:00

This isn't exactly a caption, but it is pretty funny and a lovely photo.

Grovelling

2009-12-02T09:44:00.000-08:00

We've never gone in for humiliation, but my wife does like it when I get especially excited and grovel desperately.

Mean

2009-12-01T20:29:00.000-08:00

My wife tends to think of herself as "subtly cruel", but that is not how the woman in this fantasy thinks of herself.

Request

2009-12-01T10:16:00.000-08:00

I guess it is clear by now that I like the idea of having to choose.

Thanksgiving

2009-11-30T11:34:00.000-08:00

I have a lot to be thankful for.

Boundaries

2009-11-25T11:13:00.000-08:00

My wife is getting more and more comfortable setting rules and expecting compliance. I hope she feels empowered to make our intimate time together exactly what she wants it to be.

Serving.

2009-11-25T10:59:00.000-08:00

Sometimes after a long day of doing what's expected of me, it is hard to think of ways to treat my wife and hard to find the energy to follow through with them. But I know she deserves it and anyone could do it if it were easy.

Naptime

2009-11-21T08:34:00.000-08:00

This is more or less a factual description of my morning.

Drinking

2009-11-19T06:07:00.000-08:00

This makes me think of all those drunk, horny, teenage girls who somehow resist their own desires in addition to their partner's.

Yes Ma'am.

2009-11-18T10:44:00.001-08:00

Yes. Yes. Yes.

Cruel

2009-11-18T10:19:00.000-08:00

I think I've had this picture around for almost ten years. I never realized before how mean she was, now I'll never be able to get rid of it.

Bonus

2009-11-18T08:40:00.000-08:00

As someone who loves big women, I have to say that not many can get this big and look this good.

Teasing

2009-11-18T06:28:00.000-08:00

disguises

2009-11-17T12:10:00.001-08:00

The Dreaded Internet

2009-11-13T14:09:00.000-08:00

My time spent on the internet is one on the things I still struggle with obeying my wife about. It is a strong habit. It is also part of what brought us together, so she doesn't want me to actually give it up. I struggle to walk the line. And yes, I realize the absurdity of writing a blog post about this.

Showing Off

2009-11-13T10:43:00.000-08:00

Going Back

2009-11-12T13:12:00.000-08:00

It happened recently where things just weren't how I expected them to be and I figured we would be going back to how things used to be. My wife heard this and simply said, "It's not up to you."

Other Things

2009-11-12T09:39:00.000-08:00

I gave my wife a foot rub last night while she read a book. A lot of times she'll make pleased sounds while I do it, but last night, she gave no hint that she felt anything. I can't be sure, but I think it was a good book.

Pitching in.

2009-11-12T09:07:00.000-08:00

My wife definitely provides all the energy for getting things done around the house. I was nearly useless before she inspired me.

Rimming

2009-11-11T18:38:00.001-08:00

This is really all about me. My wife doesn't particularly enjoy either of these activities, but this lucky bastard has a dream come true.

Camping

2009-11-11T18:37:00.000-08:00

It has been a very long time since my wife and I spent more than a couple hours alone. I can barely imagine what she'd choose to do if we ever found ourselves with any time like that.

Punishment

2009-11-11T11:39:00.000-08:00

My wife hasn't felt the need to punish me for anything. I don't think she likes the idea, and I'm probably lucky.

Creampie

2009-11-11T09:34:00.000-08:00

Another favorite fantasy. I don't think it has much appeal to my wife at this point, so it will probably remain a fantasy.

Skin

2009-11-10T08:58:00.000-08:00

I have to struggle almost every day with my desire to have my hand on my wife's skin. She lets me touch her quite a bit, but even before chastity, I was always wanting to touch her more.

Strapon

2009-11-09T10:36:00.000-08:00

My wife doesn't really like a strap-on. She prefers using a handheld thing for whatever reason. She's also never asked to pretend that I was a girl, but fantasies are funny things.

Stuck

2009-11-09T10:28:00.001-08:00

I have a bunch of images that I've collected to use on this blog and I'm going through them in order. This one had me stumped for a little while for some reason. I mentioned it to my wife and she looked at me like I was crazy for not being able to come up with anything for it.

Hard to Resist

2009-11-07T19:49:00.000-08:00

It wouldn't be so hard if she didn't wiggle so much.

Fibbing

2009-11-06T11:26:00.000-08:00

I definitely get more energized if I think I am going to get rewarded soon. I don't think it is technically dishonest if you tell a lie and the person believes you even though they know it is a lie.

Showing Off

2009-11-06T11:03:00.000-08:00

Since my wife led me to believe we'd make love last night, but changed her mind, I've been thinking about teasing with false expectations. This fantasy is perfect because she gives it to him knowing that he won't be able to accept.

Yes Ma'am

2009-11-05T11:35:00.000-08:00

Sorry, I've been neglecting this blog for a while.

Weather

2009-10-16T13:24:00.000-07:00

Somethings never stop changing. Weather and people and everything else. Try to make the best of it.

Complaints

2009-10-15T10:32:00.001-07:00

It is hard to imagine feeling mistreated very long when kneeling right there.

Holidays

2009-10-14T11:27:00.001-07:00

Pushing

2009-10-13T11:13:00.000-07:00

I am definitely the sort of person who does better when someone is pushing me. I'm lucky to have a wife who is good at it.

Testing

2009-10-12T08:20:00.000-07:00

Talking is important in a relationship, but sometimes a direct test can be more illuminating than any conversation. Not to mention that even a man who is trying to be honest can hold something back. Other parts of him have no ability to dissemble.

Reward.

2009-10-11T19:05:00.000-07:00

Isn't it great when a woman realizes that one of the best rewards she can give is to take something away.

Sick

2009-10-09T10:23:00.001-07:00

Chores.

2009-10-09T09:39:00.000-07:00

Taunting

2009-10-09T09:03:00.000-07:00

Praise

2009-10-08T10:40:00.000-07:00

Of course I think my wife is smart and sexy and funny and just about all wonderful, but it is tough to remember to tell her all the time but without sounding too subby for her. The guy in this fantasy doesn't have that problem.

Watching

2009-10-08T09:55:00.000-07:00

Really it is enough just to know she's enjoying herself. Even getting to watch is an extra treat.

Bath time.

2009-10-07T09:49:00.000-07:00

I'd find it very exciting if my wife sent me off to do work while she was home relaxing. Honestly, though, I'm happy that she usually would rather have me beside her.